Stop seeing a guy you don't necessarily feel good about. If you're not totally into a guy, don't date him. It's just going to be a waste of his time and yours. You're never going to find the perfect guy, but you may just find one that's right for you if you listen to your gut. 3. Practice trusting that gut feeling. Trusting your gut takes practice. We as women are so used to ignoring it until it's too late, that we've got to practice, practice, practice and soon you'll get the hang of it.